Scissor Sisters - Any Which Way (Carte Blanche Remix) by One From The Vaults

Scissor Sisters - Any Which Way (Carte Blanche Remix) by One From The Vaults

Wherefore ART thou...

David Hockney
A Bigger Splash, 1967
acrylic on canvas, 242.5 x 243.9 cm

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"It is better to be hated for what one is than to be loved for what one isn't." -Andre Gide

Brief Encounter

Theatrical magic mixed with sentimentality is what makes Brief Encounter, currently playing at Roundabout Theatre Company’s Studio 54, such an emotional, clever and for sentimentalists like me, breathtaking piece of theatre. The production, Based on a 1945 film penned by Noel Coward and beautifully re-imagined for the stage by Emma Rice, makes use of music, projected images and live performance to tell the story of a forbidden love affair between an unhappily married housewife and the handsome doctor that falls in love with her. I originally saw this show a few years ago on a visit to London and was blown away by the inventiveness, quirkiness and shear theatricality of the storytelling. Being based on a 1945 film about adultery the show could feel dated, overly sentimental and lacking relevance. However, just the opposite is true of the show. Because of how cleverly the production draws the audience in you really feel transported, and the heightened emotionality somehow begins to seem real…necessary even. I would assume this would be a tough sell to Yankee audiences as the production is quintessentially British. However, I was very happy to see that they didn’t culturally “dumb” it down for the American audience. The accents were in full force, as were the English references. I truly hope Brief Encounter finds an audience and has a life here on Broadway as I feel the production is extremely well deserving for the fact that it is striving, and succeeding, to keep theatrical storytelling alive!

What I'm Listening To...

Tenderoni - Kele - The Boxer
Love Kills - Robyn - Body Talk Part 2
All The Lovers (Michael Woods Remix) - Kylie Minogue - All The Lovers EP
Songs Remind Me of You (The Swiss Remix) - Annie - SRMOY Single
You Gonna Want Me - Tiga - Sexor
Spaghetti Circus - Still Going (Juan MacLean DJ-Kicks Mix) - DJ Kicks
Tu Vou’ Fa L’Americano (Remix) - Renato Carosone
Invisible Light (Nita & Sammy Jo Invisible Strings of Light Remix) - Scissor Sisters
After Dark - The Count & Sinden Ft. Mystery Jets - Mega Mega Mega
Changes (Dimitri from Paris is Night Dubbin’ Remix) - Imagination - Night Dubbin’

Phierce Photography

Herb Ritts

Neith w/ Shadows

1995

Yummy!

Last night I did something I almost never do. I wanted to try a new restaurant and as I strolled down 20th and 7th after work I passed this charming bistro called Periyali. I decided to just walk in, without even looking at the menu. I was feeling adventurous, the place was packed and I figured taking chances is a good thing. They were booked with reservations so the host (with the most) asked if I minded dining at the bar, something I’m usually not very fond of doing. However, I decided to continue on with my adventure seeking attitude and agreed to dine at the bar (eating a meal at the bar might not sound that adventurous to you…but trust me, it is in the urban jungle I live in!). The host was very accommodating and made up a lovely little place setting for me. However, in a cruel trick of fate, as I opened the menu that was placed in front of me, the first entree I noticed was mousaka, then, grilled lamb…tzatziki…this was a GREEK restaurant! Having just returned from twelve days in the Mediterranean I had to laugh at this ironic twist. I decided to stay anyway since the surroundings were so comfortable and host had been so accommodating. The bartender who served me was incredibly attentive, charming and, of course, Greek…a happy reminder of the lovely people I met during my trip. Of course I had to tell him about my travels and as it turns out he was very familiar with the island of Paros that I visited, and said that he traveled to Paros after he graduated high school. After the host heard I had just returned from Greece he also regaled me with stories from his childhood in Greece and how he dreamed of getting back there soon. It was all very charming. But let’s get back to the real focus…the food. I decided to start with the stuffed eggplant special…to die for! Delicious grilled eggplant stuffed with tomatoes, capers and feta. For my entree I opted for the Souvlaki Fileto, a delicious charcoal grilled filet and vegetable kebab served with a scrumptious Greek rice. I washed it all down with a Greek wine suggested to me by the bartender. The dinner actually ended up being a really great finish to the end of a lovely two weeks of Grecian experiences. My server was charming and curious, the food was absolutely delicious and the quaint space was comfortable and very welcoming. I will definitely be back to Periyali, probably in mid-winter when I’ll need a reminder of island warmth, great food and the welcoming Greek spirit.

Periyali
35 W. 20th St.
New York, NY 10011
212.463.7890

http://www.periyali.com/index.htm

Mediterranean Memories - Jackie O'

Where oh where does one go out in Mykonos?? The first time I visited Mykonos I was kind of disappointed…in the gay scene that is. Granted, I didn’t do my research beforehand, so it was partly my fault. However, I didn’t go to the right beaches, bars or clubs. So, this “gay mecca” that Mykonos had always promised to be, in my mind at least, wasn’t really all that...gay. Well, boy did that all change on this trip! Not only did I find the gay beach to out-gay all gay beaches, I finally found where the party was…and it was of course, appropriately, hosted by Mrs. Jackie O’! Jackie O’ is an amazing gay bar in Mykonos Town. It is right on the water and right next door to another gay bar called…are you ready…Babylon (how original). Anyway, Jackie O’ is obviously the more popular of the two. However, I learned something else on this trip. The party does not get started until late, late, late. I passed by this bar around 11pm one night and no one was there. There were a few waiters milling about and a gay flag flapping in the island wind…but no patrons. It was a little sad. I decided to head back into town to shop, walk around and grab a sweet. A few hours past and around 1am I figured I might as well pass by Jackie O’ again just to see if maybe one or two homosexuals happened to find their way to what looked like a potentially really cool bar. There were indeed a few more peeps there the second time around, enough for me to decide to hang for a few drinks at least. However, as the minutes past more and more and more people started showing up. The more I drank the more the crowd multiplied…it was nuts. Come 2am the place was PACKED! You couldn’t move! One of the funniest things about the experience, and this is so Greece, was the fact that, as I mentioned before, the two gay bars were literally right next to each other. However, each one had its own DJ…and all the action was outside. Therefore, if you found yourself hovering too close to the middle of the two bars you kind of had to listen to a clusterfuck of music. It didn’t make sense at all…but alas, so Greece. I spent many a drunken night drinking, dancing and cavorting with Mrs. Jackie O’ and her island gays…a super fun, super crazy and super gay hot spot.

Warning: Be careful of the winds and the water! When the sea gets rough the waves crash over the stone barrier separating the bar from the water and needless to say there were a few very unhappy, saltwater drenched causalities…but a good laugh was had by my drunk ass.

Wherefore ART thou...

Gilbert & George
Dream - 1984
243.8 x 254 cm, gelatin-silver prints with handcolouring

Mediterranean Memories - Mykonos, Petasos Beach Resort & Spa, Elias Beach

Petasos Beach Resort & Spa…everything you want in a Mykonos resort! I absolutely love, love, love this property! Not only is it beautiful inside and out but the staff are incredibly friendly and helpful, the rooms are modern and comfortable and the salt water pool is to die for! Actually the whole pool area itself makes the hotel. The resort sits on a cliff high above the beautiful beaches of Platis Yialos, with the pool area literally hovering over the bay like a beautiful white spaceship. The view from atop the cliff is absolutely breathtaking with the constant arrival and departure of some of the most spectacular yachts I have ever seen. I spent hours my first full day lounging, sipping my Alpha Beer (traditional Greek beer, of course) and yacht watching. There is a lovely outdoor pool restaurant, but who needs to get up out of your lounger when you have pool servers presenting you with an array for frozen skewered fruits throughout the day…a true resort experience. They have a beautiful spa and a second pool area with cabanas and an additional bar. There is also a lovely restaurant on the property where I enjoyed my breakfast each morning while watching the sun slowly waking-up for its long day of work. One of my favorite parts of the hotel pool area is the beanbag-like loungers that they have lined up in front of a glass partition literally right on the cliffs edge overlooking the bay. I spent many a sunset spread out on one of these loungers, cocktail in hand, gazing out to the beautiful Aegean Sea while the late day sun bid me farewell until the next morning.

I could have just spent every day around the pool and grounds of this beautiful property, but I guess I had to get out and explore the island a little. This was my second time to Mykonos, so I skipped many of the “must sees” that I did on my first trip, like Delos for example, an incredible archaeological island a short boat ride away…for any first time Mykonos traveler, Delos should not be missed. However, this trip was more about relaxing and doing nothing…well, nothing at the beach. The beautiful beach of choice this time was Elias Beach. There are many beaches around the entire island, of course. However, the three main beaches and the most well known are Paradise, Super Paradise and Elias. Luckily the crotchety old taxi boat that takes you to these beaches was only a few steps from my hotel, very convenient. Elias is the last stop on the beach boat and is where most of the gays tend to hang. There is a small sliver that is a nude beach and then the rest of the beach is covered in loungers, umbrellas and beautiful bodies. It’s fabulous! I spent almost every day at Elias Beach just because it has everything one needs...sun, sand, beautiful water, beachfront wait service and gorgeous views both around and on the beach…there was even a little old local that showed up with a wood tray full of freshly made donuts everyday…paradise! I would then jump back on the taxi boat to Petasos for my evening cocktail and sunset watching before getting ready for my night.

Of course my nights were spent in Mykonos town…and I will get to that in a later post. But if you’re looking for a true Mykonos resort paradise look no farther than Petasos Beach Resort & Spa…and Elias Beach …a jet-setters paradise!

http://www.petasos.gr/

The Donut Guy (that's not me btw :))

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“Wit ought to be a glorious treat like caviar; never spread it about like marmalade.”

–Noel Coward

History feat.Will Young (Tom Budden's ALiVE Remix) by OMrecords

History feat.Will Young (Tom Budden's ALiVE Remix) by OMrecords

Mediterranean Memories - Sodade

Being mid-September and with the end of season ferry schedule I found myself having to take a boat back to Athens from Paros on the night before my flight back to the States. My ferry landed at 12am and my flight wasn’t until 12pm that afternoon. I had originally thought that I would just waste the twelve hours hanging around in the airport since I had all my bags and excess travel crap. However, the closer I got to my departure date I realized that twelve hours is actually a pretty long time to hang in an airport, so I figured that maybe I should find a cheap hotel for the night, a place to drop my bags, and try to discover a little gay nightlife in Athens. From the few, and I do mean few, coffee shops that had WiFi on Paros I researched and found that a part of Athens called Gazi seemed to be the gay bulls-eye. I found a cheap hole-in-the-wall hotel for €60 that was very close to Gazi, got into Athens a little after midnight and once I dropped my bags and splashed some water on my face I was ready to conquer the gay Greek gods of the capital. I started at a bar called the Blue Train, a nice place to start the evening, very low key, with tables on the streets where I could acclimate myself to the area and size up the passers by. As I sipped my Jameson and coke (I know, not a very Athenian drink) I noticed that on the roof of this bar, about three stories up, there was some sort of outdoor lounge-like space. I finished my drink and found my way up the stairs. I was right; on the rooftop overlooking Athens I found a super low-key outdoor bar with sofas, cool music and a hot little Greek waiter…a perfect spot. However, I also noticed that it wasn’t very busy. Was this the best Athens could do at 2:30am on a Saturday night? Not knowing the gay scene here at all I figured this must be it. I decided to ask the cute Greek waiter for advice. I explained that I was only in town for that night and asked him if there was something I was missing. “Sodade” is all he said. After a few broken-English directions I was off to find this not-to-be-missed “Sodade”. After a few rights, a sharp left and few dark alleys, I came upon the illuminated sign of Sodade. It didn’t look like much from the outside, just a door, with a few Greeks roaming around in the front. I went in, paid the cashier my €8 and entered through the glass doors. Holy shit!! This place was crammed packed with people, the music was pumping, everyone was screaming over everyone else, there were lasers lights and cigarette smoke bouncing off of the walls…perfect…I had found my Athenian party! I managed to squeeze through the packed crowd to the bar and soon discovered that this was a multi-room venue, with an out door area and beautiful people everywhere. Just when I though I couldn’t handle anymore the DJ played an incredible dance mix of Madonna’s Erotica! I never wanted to leave! I drank and danced and talked to people who had no idea what I was saying until finally I had to tear myself away and head back to my hotel for the few hours of sleep I was able to get before I flew back to the New World. I am so grateful to the cute Greek waiter for steering me in the right direction; I guess he could tell what kind of scene I was looking for. So, if you ever find yourself in Gazi and are in need of some super cool gay energy head to Sodade…word.

Mediterranean Memories - Paros

Well, I’m back from the beautiful Aegean Sea…bronzed, relaxed and filled to the brim with enough fresh seafood to last me until next summer! There are so many experiences from my trip that I want to post about. However, I must begin my Greek postings with the beautiful island of Paros, the second island I visited on my trip. Paros is a forty-five minute ferry ride away from Mykonos, and although it is quite popular among Greek and European tourists it somehow manages to stay just out of the American Tourist/Cruise Shipper radar, and just off of the beaten paths of Mykonos, Santorini and Naxos. This, along with its beautiful landscapes, crystal clear waters and hip, welcoming locals makes Paros one of the most charming and unique of the Clyclades Islands. I first discovered this island paradise on a family trip about three years ago, my first time to Greece. Out of all the islands we visited I, along with my family, fell head over heals in love with Paros. My father so much so that just last year he purchased a beautiful little traditional Greek house on the island; a whitewashed, cubical abode covered in pink bougainvillea and a about a kilometer away from my favorite beach on the island, Kolymbithres. Kolymbitheres Beach with its super cool rock formations and water so shallow you can practically walk out into the sea for miles (or kilometers :)) offers a collection of little sand coves where you can park your towel and beach bag as you bath the day away in the bath-like waters of the Mediterranean. It is one of the most relaxing and beautiful places on the island and the perfect place to lazily watch the sunset. Staying at an actual residence was such a different type of travel experience for me. I felt like I was truly able to experience island life free from the touristy distractions of a resort. Don’t get me wrong, I love resorts and I will get to the beautiful resort I stayed at in Mykonos in a later post. However, staying in an actual home, away from the “attractions” and touristy type of offerings, I truly got to experience first hand what it feels like to be a local. I was able to wakeup to the sun shinning through the wooden shutters of my bedroom; roll out of my (very tiny) bed and into the large and inviting family kitchen. Pour myself a cup of coffee mixed with a few drops of Noynoy, the most delicious condensed Greek milk I have ever tasted, and lounge on the front porch watching the neighborhood cats as they hunted for their morning breakfast…so quite, so serine and so relaxing. But its not all relaxing…there is also a thriving night life scene, amazing shops and great restaurants in both the capital and main port town of Parikia and the beautiful fishing port, and my favorite town on the island, Naoussa. Not to mention the medieval mountain town of Lefkes with its winding roads and beautiful jewelry. This little island is so packed full of surprises, there seems to be unexpected discoveries at every corner.

However, my very favorite part of Paros, and, in my humble opinion, the best part of Paros is its tiny little island sister, Antiparos (‘anti’ meaning ‘across’ Paros). Less than one nautical mile across the sea from Paros, Antiparos is a gorgeous little gem of an island and is host to many celebrity homes (Tom Hanks has a vacation home here among many others). It is also a very big windsurfing destination as the calm waters and wind-filled air of the Aegean make for perfect surfing conditions. I’m not sure if it’s because of the celebrity vibe, the surf culture or just the magic of the Greek islands in general but Antiparos gives off such a current, hip and just plain cool vibe while still maintaining its old-world island charm. I think the island’s magic has to do with the low-key vibe of is residents and the beautiful surroundings in which they are lucky enough to lead their daily lives. There are of course beautiful beaches, a quaint little port and even a cave that’s more that 100 meters deep, but it’s the people that give Antiparos its vibe!

Paros and Antiparos are truly two of the most unique and beautiful of all the Cyclades Islands and I can’t wait to go back to discover more of the many hidden treasures on offer on these two jewels of the Aegean Sea!

Holiday!

Well, I’m off to the Mediterranean!! In just a few long hours I will be sunning myself on the beach at Super Paradise, Mykonos! I will also be traveling to the beautiful isle of Paros, about 45 minutes from Mykonos by ferry, and one of the most beautiful places I have ever visited, so beautiful that I decided that one visit was simply not enough! I am so looking forward to the break and it looks like I’m leaving just in time to miss Hurricane Earl! The only Hurricane I plan on colliding with is one served in a glass over ice! See you when I get back!

Bansky Strikes Again!

Bansky, the British graffiti artist, political activist and all together super-cool-anonymous-dude, unveiled his latest prank/work of genius on the pier of the seaside town of Brighton in the U.K.; a coin operated dolphin ride for children…with a twist…the dolphin is jumping over a leaking barrel of BP oil. Brilliant.

Bansky, who has managed to keep his identity under wraps year after year, which is in and of itself an act of artistic greatness, has always found a way to express his politics artistically in a cool, unique and totally original way! Here are a few more of my favorites…